Monday, August 31, 2026

I don't normally do this but today I am going to share my current 3 favourite mentors.
More on that later but what I can tell you is the title of this Newsletter comes from one of those Mentors.
They said it and it struck me so profoundly I was like "Yes !!" and instantly this Newsletter started pouring through my consciousness.
I haven't actually written a newsletter for quite some time and that's ok, I'm ok with it. Somewhere in the ether is a podcast episode on a similar subject and I was feeling this stuff before the mentors I am going to mention articulated my thoughts and feelings back to me.
A long time ago. Well it feels long but it probably wasn't my physical business was struggling in the aftermath of Covid. I'd remained positive throughout Covid and honestly I wanted out of the physical business before Covid was a thing so I hope it wasn't my desire that created a global pandemic to facilitate my desires.
I had made a declaration to the Universe I did not want one more Christmas in my shop with it's freezing cold environment in winter and stifling hot in summer, stinky even colder shared victorian toilet and the Christmas Hustle bus that was leaving me drained and exhausted on Christmas eve.
I had seen a different way to do business and I was trying to build it in tiny pockets of time but as I saw my physical business income dwindle I felt this pressure to get it finished to create extra income sources.
It was taking longer than I antisipated. Constant interupptions. Tech issues and when I finally launched it months later than planned .....
Crickets 🦗
Also somewhere in the ether is either a blog post, podcast or newsletter about why crickets are normal.
I did that because I was becoming increasingly aware that most successful people don't share that they had crickets in the beginning and I wanted people to see it can be part of the process and that there is nothing wrong with them and keep persevering.
This is all connected. Trust me.
Because after the aftermath of Cricket Gate I admit I was shocked, disillusioned and darn right just down and felt out.
But, but after a pause in transmission things started to stir again.
Synchronicities started to happen and I started to see that subconsciously the place I was coming from was fear and lack and scarcity so of course I was going to get crickets.
I was oozing fear and panic into the atmosphere and repelling the very thing I desired. Customers and clients.
I was loving what I was doing so I wasn't aware the vibration I was putting behind it all was "Time is running out, I'm not making enough money. Money is going to run out. I need to get this finished asap. Oh Fxxkadoodle not another person showing up unexpectedly wanting free advise. Well there's another day down the drain."
The whatever it was content I put out back a long was instigated because I was annoyed by a podcast episode I heard that I came across randomly (but there never is any random) and the presenter was talking Law of Attraction but on this Occassion they were talking about the commitment they made to themselves to ensure they did one podcast episode a week and how life had become complicated and some ill health and how they used the Law of Attraction to ensure that episode went out and how you can do what they did to.
IE: Celebrating forced creation, sacrificing personal health other sacrifices along the way but hey I did it right. I didn't let you down and I didn't let myself down with this personally applied deadline.
And I thought no !!!!
Please don't sell this as the right way to use the Law of Attraction and create unnecessary hardship on yourself that most probably no-one cares about or even notices.
Your using that fear based energy that I did to create a negative result and because of the vibration behind it it would probably have an undesirable result anyway.
That's why when it came across my mind that I has missed a couple weeks of producing a newsletter that I had pretty much created week in week out for over a year and felt anxiety build up in me I have been "Ahh no. Don't go there!"
Go do something else instead and one of those things was listening to some Regan Hillyer training I had invested in and in it Regan talked about the exact same thing.
"If you have committed yourself to put up 2 Instagram reels a day but life is busy but you force yourself to stay up late to get them done and you do it but it feels forced. You probably won't get any views because you have infused them with this lack and limitation where as someone else puts out a post from joy and excitement and spontaneity it puts out a whole different vibration it could go viral."
I know this to be true ....
Because it happened to me and I think people don't talk about this enough.
They are still talking about strategy and hustle and do this, try that and post 10 stories a day if you want success etc, etc, etc and now my head hurts and I need to lay down just typing that because even writing about that method makes me feel Blah and exhausted.
So Regan is one of the people I love the most in the world for what she calls creating and becoming Conscious Millionaires and Conscious Entrepreneurs and she is the living embodiment of doing less and earning more.
Part of what I have been building is what I call infrastructure, architecture, ecosystems aka The Freedom Empire Movement and it is my intention to support others to do the same.
I want to create (am creating, have created) products and services that link in and feed each other. That work when I don't. That make money while I sleep, travel spend time with loved ones and that's how I found out Regan thinks.
I actually came to this conclusion of this is what I wanted because of having a physical business and trading time for money. Being landlocked, time capped, income capped and I am grateful for that business and that experience because without it I would have never come to the distinction and perspective I have now and be building what I am calling my lifes work. My Purpose work, at 60 that I see developing over the next 30,40,50, 60 years.
And part of that step away model is what is called Evergreen assets.
Every Newsletter, blog post, podcast episode. Youtube video etc is an Evergreen asset. It is building a Library, an archive of content that someone may find a couple days from now, a couple months, years. Heck even decades yet it is just the right piece of information they needed to hear.
They like it, it hits something deep inside, it creates a connection and they connect and resonate to you and your energy and then they want to seek more of what you do so to them you see. It doesn't matter if you missed a couple weeks of your Newsletter. Didn't record a podcast episode one week because life got busy or you were sick or just having a whale of a time travelling like I have been.
Because your ideal client might not even know you exist yet.
Hell, this maybe the first Newsletter of mine you have ever found and read and there is something vibed into that you resonated to and you liked it and want to hear more, read more.
Want to check out the podcast version of what I have to say ...
Bingo !!
I used to purchase courses etc out of fear feeling I couldn't be successful unless I learned this or implemented that and then the Universe brought me in front of Kathleen Cameron ....
Wow, has Kathleen got a whole different perspective on the world but one I resonated to so much because she is all about the do less to create more feminine energy of doing business philosophy and she is living proof that it works after generating I think it is over 40 million dollars in a very short amount of years.
She set a goal starting out to make a million in a year and hit it in 7 months and actually finished that particular year at 3.3 million and while taught by incredible mentors like Bob Proctor and Neale Donald Walsh she has an incredible way of taking their ideas and simplifying them down.
Since I have come across Kathleen and her way of operating she has a way of calming my nervous system and allowing more in from doing less which is what I am all about and advocating Feminine energy.
I feel the world is in Transmission and Transformation.
The old way of doing things with the Masculine energy. Work hard, hustle, grind 🤮 and wearing it like a badge of honour is thankfully coming to an end. Recently I saw some new Trainings by Regan Hillyer and when I thought about purchasing them I checked in with myself.
What was motivating me to consider purchasing these products. Was it FOMO, was it Fear based Masculine energy or Faith based aligned action.
It turned out it felt right. I could see how this was valuable to my own business and I happily went ahead and purchased in an abundance Mindset.
Which brings me onto my last and newest mentor who actually inspired this Newsletter.
He is, yes it is a HE and 'He" is the first man I have come across that also talks of using Feminine energy, do less to create more and what he was saying in the podcast episode that inspired this Newsletter.
"What is coming is going"
What he meant when he said "What is coming is going" is ....
What is coming is the old stuff just working itself out so on the surface level it looks like nothing is changing. Everything is getting worse but also in his words "We are just bottoming out"
I have been feeling this for a long time and the last few months more than ever.
I have had the most massive Transformation in my own life and see it in so many others and they are feeling it to and having massive Transformations.
So if you are looking at the state of the world, your world and think it all looks so terrible maybe for you thinking and or telling yourself that it is ok. It is just here because it is part of what is coming is what is going and it is just bottoming out.
I said earlier Kathleen Cameron has a simpler perspective on creation, manifestation like I have never heard of before and she calls when we get stressed being in our "human."
In our Human. We are not connected to the Higher Power, Source Energy we all have available to us and we have become misaligned and we are acting from fear not Faith.
So when I find myself feeling negative emotion I started to acknowledge it and remind myself "Ali, you're in your human" and use it to reconnect and align to Source energy and when I realign I have Faith again in the unseen and fear starts to dissipate.
And then I came across Dave who inspired this content.
He made it even simpler to realign.
He breaks it down to 2 things.
We are either in a Powerful state or Primal.
If you feel good you are in a Powerful state. I think that speaks for itself and all it's possibilites.
And if you are feeling uncomfortable state. Feeling fearful that is wrong thinking.
Anything that makes you feel bad, uncomfortable, fearful comes from wrong thinking and means you are in a primal state and you are out of alignment.
Right thinking won't make you feel bad.
Kathleen talks of introspection. To dig into our negative beliefs and find out what is causing the sensation.
Dave and that is, David Bayer by the way says whenever you feel bad this is an indicator you are in a primal state (fight, flight or freeze) and ...
That problems brings you to the solutions.
Meaning whatever appears to be the problem that has brought you to a Primal state has a solution and focus on what the opposite of what the problem is and not the problem itself.
If you don't like the state of your bank account love your bank account where it is right now and thank it and the Primal feeling that comes with it for highlighting that you are in wrong thinking and then focus on the opposite situation.
Think powerful thoughts.
He actually said he looks at the things that can trigger him and he say "Thank you A, B, C for X<Y<Z but Bye, Bye."
I know it sounds so simple but who cares. Who has to know?
He is so honest he does what I have never heard anyone else do before.
He calls out people.
If he sees someone acting inauthentically he has called them out and if he found it trigger him he says "Oh, I see that. Bye, bye". He sees he is coming from a Primal state and then he chooses to disengage from the primal feeling for his own protection.
Some may see that as being closed minded and you have to be realistic but I get what he is saying because if you focus on it you perpetuate it, whatever "IT" is and you are actually responsible for still keeping this situation alive by focusing your attention on it and placing energy there.
I know I don't want to be responsible for that personally.
Remember "What is coming, is going"
If you look at the problems of the world as everything bottoming out and not being triggered by it and decide to turn a blind eye and say Bye, Bye you can help to speed up the Bottoming out process and Transformation of Universal Consciousness.
I know which place I want to come from.
How about you ?
Conversations like this are becoming the heartbeat of everything I'm building.
Not just Aligned & Free.
Not just what I'm building next.
But something even deeper.
A different way of thinking about freedom, wealth and the life we're truly here to create.
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