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Know That You Are the Courageous One !!

Saturday, March 15, 2025

Amplified Empires /Know That You Are the Courageous One !!
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 "Haters Are Gonna Hate but They Ain't. They Just Ain't"


When I say "They Ain't. They Just Ain't". They are not going to do the thing that brought you to their attention that made them Hate On You.

I get it is scary putting yourself out there Online but just think how Courageous You are if and when you Do !!

One my most favourite people on this planet admits to be wildly introverted but they are at the same time so Wildly Passionate about the message they came to serve the world with and Me and Millions of others are so Grateful they did and that they keep bringing themselves to show up and the truth is ...

The more you do it. These easier it gets when you "Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway"

You build a muscle memory that makes it become more and more your default way of being but you just have to start regardless of potential negative feedback.

If You keep reading, I am going to give you some potential options to put yourself out there in ways that help take away the fear of putting yourself out there in front of Family and Loved Ones that maybe stopping you from starting but first know this ...

If people Hate they probably think they are so clever and so self-righteous about themselves that they are right and you are wrong but most likely subconsciously they are doing it out of jealousy and fear.

They are jealous that they see you out there doing and being something they want to do. They most likely see entrepreneurial influencers living a certain lifestyle and they are jealous of what they have but to scared to do something about it.

Or want to do it but have no idea how but instead of investing the time into to learning like you and I.

My guess is if you are reading this you are either already in the Online space or desire to be and researching to learn more to put your dreams and desires into play

Regan Hillyer calls our desires our Souls Whispering us. Calling us forward to the Dream life we want and our Souls are already out their living it.

So Never Deny a Desire !!

It's Your Divine Right !!

And I feel sorry for people that are so in pain they reach out to their keyboard to hurt others instead of using that keyboard time on something more productive.

If only they could see that all that time hating could be Transmuted into something so wonderful and give them the life they envy.

But I Am going to be brutal here !!

We ain't got time for that sxxt. Because "They Ain't. They Just Ain't !!"

Instead Know You Already Have a Beautiful Soul Aligned Audience out there desperate for what You have to Offer and it is Doing them a Disservice if you don't share Your Own Unique Message.

It's not Selling, it is Serving !!

I took the Opportunity the other day to get somebody’s Freebie I saw offered on an email list I am already subscribed on because I invested $9.99 on another Digital Product of theirs and I felt it had value for me.

Plus the person I mentioned earlier that is Introverted calls it "Offer hacking".

If you are bored and having nothing to do. Instead of mindlessly scrolling.

Use that time to click on the ads you see pop up on Social Media and follow it through to see what they are doing and how they are doing it and even grab some of their free offers or even invest in their product if it feels aligned.

I actually have a folder on my Facebook called "Offer Hacking" so if I see something that catches my eye and I feel aligned to it or that person seems similar to me or I know someone is Super Successful already. I want to get a gist of what they are doing that gets them that way?

Tony Robbins says "Success Leaves Clues" seek out the people already successful doing what you want to do and learn from them.

They are the people who have arrows in their backs as the Introverted Russell Brunson calls it.

They are the pioneers who went out in front of us and found out all the pitfalls and what works and what doesn't so it makes sense to learn from them so we can avoid the rattlesnakes and bandits

Sorry, I am a girl here who has just finished watching 1883.

I recently recorded and episode on my Podcast The Fab Over Forty Show called what I learned from Yellowstone.

I think I should record another one now "What I learned from 1883" because I picked up on an interesting observation which sort of brings me back to the Lead Magnet I chose to opt into recently

Because after I got my Freebie I quite quickly got bombarded by email after email telling me I had to hurry. Do this. Do That. I'm Going to Miss out !!

I counted and I had 4 in one hour at one point and I was doing something else

Probably watching 1883 with my partner because I have a rule ...

When my partner comes home the Laptop Lid goes down

The likes of the 4 emails an hour guy would probably say that is wrong and ask how am I going to be successful if that is how I Operate my life?

Because I choose to. I Am not a Dinosaur 🦖

I will not any more (see the edition Fear Made Me Do it, It Made Your Do it To) allow myself to be driven by Fear.

I work in FAITH that everything is working out for me in Perfect Ways and in Perfect time. Soul Aligned with Grace Ease and Flow.

My reaction to Mr 4 emails an hour Guy?

Honestly ....

"Fxxk Off Will Ya"

It just repelled me ...

Talking of Dinosaurs and Pioneers.

I have been banging on for quite awhile now about the Masculine Energy and how I believe it is a new Era we are walking into of Conscious Entrepreneurs. Regan calls us Conscious Millionaires and Billionaire and I have no doubt she will probably be the first Conscious Female Billionaire of her kind and that is why I resonate to her so much.

Someone who I admire but resonated away from a little bit, who though female was operating. I feel, out of that Masculine Mindset. Said "You have to be consistent and keep showing up regardless what's going on" Their term actually was and this is what repulsed me a bit "Unless you are bleeding out your eyeballs"

Has actually seen and become involved in a new Opportunity and her whole message and Marketing has changed.

I have even seen the words Non-Masculine. New Era and setting a new president for doing business in a Non Rushed Elegant Manner.

Honestly in the beginning I thought "Oh Ok, Is that right Miss Bleed out Your Eyeballs" and I could have hated on them for it but now !!

I Am So Grateful.

They are a Truly Inspirational Women and if they can bring all Their Knowledge and Expertise into the arena of a New Era we are so blessed.

We All Transform and I have watched people who I became aware of, some several years ago now. Even when I thought they were Incredible. Constantly change and Transform and we are All the Better for it.

Because they are one, two even ten or more chapters ahead of us we can Transform also.

A couple years back I invested in a Lifetime access to a tool to help me with my Copy and create professional looking copy with ease and speed.

Now we have AI available to us free of charge.

Last night I kept reading a sentence over and over in a book and I just couldn't get my head around it so I followed Inspired Action and copied it into ChatGPT and asked it to explain the process to me.

In a few short seconds it reeled out an explanation I could get my head around.

Then another thought. Inspired Idea came into my mind.

Use this technique to apply to a situation I had that I wanted to resolve. I then copied the results into a Google Document to keep for reference.

Which brings me back to the Title of this Edition of Amplified Empires 

If you do indeed, want to Create an Empire and Amplify it. You have to keep following your own Inspired Guidance regardless of Others.

Know you already have a Soul Aligned Audience and anything you are unsure of keeping using the tools available to us and research and learn from the Pioneers and If Your Family and Friends aren't on board?

Firstly, know that is common for everyone. And I mean everyone and they can be even some of the haters.

Just remember:​

Haters Are Gonna Hate but They Ain't. They Just Ain't. 

But You Must  try finding a platform that suits you that they probably won't be using if that helps you.

If your friends and Family are all on Instagram use Linkedin. Build a blog (it's free on Wordpress.com) Try YouTube, TikTok and you can always block them !!

I'm serious !!

I have started using Platforms and in the beginning when I felt nervous about putting myself out there authentically and feared judgment from people I love and love me but knew wouldn't get it. I have searched them out and anyone connected to them and blocked them straight off the bat even before I put anything out there.

People may judge me but it helped me get started when I wasn't.

When I started my blog The Law of Attraction Lover. I called it that for the very reason I was scared people were going to know it was me and judge and I actually asked the Universe on what to call it because the Universe seemed Determined to make me start it regardless of my Fears by lining up Synchronicity and after Synchronicity and in the end it felt impossible to not do it and I Am so glad I did.

Because the life I have lived since stepping out of my Comfort Zone has been amazing.

And did you know?

Most of us started, (if we are of a certain age reading this and I hope you are because my main mission is to show and Inspire Women over Forty that it is possible to be part of this Digital Revolution) ... are on Facebook.

And on Facebook you can create audiences and set them as default.

I have seen it said so many times that you have to make you Facebook posts public to build a business on Social Media but that seems these days to just leave you open to spam comments from people who have their own agenda instead of gaining new genuine followers.

The Genuine Audience. They can find you on other platforms but on your own Personal Facebook you can create and audience and blockout all the people you don't want to see your posts that may make you pause posting and post with ease and Freedom and Flow.

You can still post on Public and to your whole Facebook Friends list but if you are just starting to build a business and feel nervous of people's thoughts ...

Only put those posts out to that specific audience you feel confident to share to and know and love you and "Get You". The Real You which gives me an idea for my next edition.

A hack I learned to still have all the people in your life that you love and love you but don't quite get "This Thing" you are building "Your Freedom Empire"

Talking of Facebook. I might even record a Live on it in my Newly revamped Facebook Group Fabulous Freedom Over Forty so if you want to join and see that Live or on Replay don't hesitate to request to join here: Fabulous Freedom Over Forty.

To create a Custom list on Facebook

Key steps:

  • ▪️Access Friends: Log into Facebook and navigate to the "Friends" section on the left side of your newsfeed
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  • ▪️Select Custom: Lists: Click on "Custom Lists" within the Friends section.
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  • ▪️Create New List: Click "Create List" to start making a new custom list.
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  • ▪️Name Your List: Enter a name for your custom list.
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  • ▪️Add Friends: Search for and select the friends you want to add to your newly created list.
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Once you have created the list when you go to post. Usually the top part of your newsfeed on your phone saying "What's on your mind" when you tap it the box will pop up t create a post.

At the top of the post you will see the name or type of Privacy audience set to. It may be "Public" "Friends" depending on your settings.

Tap that and your audience types will pop up

Tap the audience your created and it should now have a blue dot.

At the bottom there is an option to set as default

You can edit the audience this way to post public or all friends depending on the type of post you are sending to each individual time but if you set your filtered audience as default straight after posting to say public (your full list) the next time you go to post you will only be posting to that special audience 

When you tap the audience you created all the names of your friends will pop up with a little box to the right

If you tap the box it will go red and this means this person/persons will not see this post and are no longer part of this audience

There is a search bar at the top so if you know the people you don't feel comfortable sharing with simply search them and tap the box

It doesn't mean they are blocked or your are no longer friends but just they will not see any posts made to this specific audience

All your friends are listed Alphabetically so instead of searching each individual friend on your list you would prefer not to see your posts you can simply scroll, tap the box as you go screening out the people you don't want to see your posts.

If you are building a Digital Business but still working a Job while you create your Freedom Figure (more on this in another edition) and you have colleagues on your friends list you don't want to see your new business posts this is perfect for this

If Great Aunt Mary is always quizzing you about your comings and going and never has anything positive to say about it because subconsciously negativity is her default method of operating (as is the majority of the world, more on this in the next Edition). Great stick her on the list.

If you have a competitive or jealous sibling who thinks everything you do and your very existence is about making them look bad (Victim Mode/Level 1 on the four Levels of Consciousness. Also more on this coming up and also the majority of the worlds MO). Come on, we all know this happens. Stick them on the list !!

Nothing should stop you sharing your gifts.

Especially Haters. They won't miss a minutes sleep because something they said stopped you sharing Your purpose but you will if you don't live your most authentic life and talking of Haters. The whole MO of this week's newsletter ...

And tackling Fear ...

Just know I was brought up to Fear everything and not take any chances to avoid disappointment and scared to truly be Me for Fear of the repercussions from the people closest to me then something happened.

The Universe Inspired a friend to give me a book that changed my life. I even Feared talking about the book that changed it because Fear of the consequences but ironically that book set a benchmark to lead me on, I truly believe for every other book I have read and every positive action in my life and I have already mentioned it earlier in this Newsletter with a clickable link but i'll drop it here again and you only have to tap the title to be able to grab your own copy of "Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway" by Susan Jeffers.

I have so much more to share with you and I am so excited what I have to offer coming up on  Amplified Empires and I'll see you on the next edition and thank you for reading

Go give the World what you were brought here to Truly share and Inspired Guidance will be with you all along the way

Ali xoxo

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Hi, I Am Ali

CEO Of  Alison K Parsons 

I am the Author of the Law of Attraction Lover Blog and now Amplified Empires as well as Many Digital Assets and Products and I am on a Mission to Inspire and Encourage as Many as Fabulous Woman over 40 how to do the same. 

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