Friday, March 14, 2025

Fear made me do. It made you do it too !!
It was interesting to see only yesterday, I saw 2 extremely successful woman advertise events based around Fear. It's refreshing people are starting to realise the consequences of Fear and sharing the message to support others from not falling foul.
Have you been presented with a situation and suddenly your stomach rolls? You feel nauseous. Your temperature rises. Breathing becomes rapid? Palms sweaty etc.
Chances are you are reacting from one of the 6 Basic Fears subconsciously !!
Shortly I will reveal those fears so you can see which ones you may be susceptible too.
A few short years ago I finally found the answer I had been looking for to actualise a deep desire
Yes Finally !! This is It !!
I was exhilarated and immediately went into creation mode.
Honestly, I truly believed 100% this was the answer to my prayers and I still do, however I was completely unaware at a deep level I was being motivated by a Fear and when I finally implemented what I had been working on it wasn't successful in the way I anticipated.
At the time I felt disheartened, disappointed, disillusioned. Even a Failure but now I feel it was one of the greatest experiences and lessons of my life.
A wise Woman said to me recently "You never fail unless you quit but actually If you quit you didn't fail you just stopped"
In the aftermath, in the early days after the event I just discussed. I felt a bit numb and I did stop.
I had invested several months and multiple hours creating several projects at once as I felt they all complemented each other and the result felt like a massive kick in the teeth.
But Gradually the Inspired Actions started to Whisper to me and One of them was to complete a Course on Ho'Oponopono I had invested in but not completed (yet).
Maybe I needed to wait until that moment in time to complete it, to get's it full effect. Because Ho'oPonopono if you are not aware is an ancient Hawaiian Art of Healing and I certainly needed to Heal at that time.
During these months I hadn't acknowledged the pressures I had been feeling because I was actually enjoying so much what I was doing I wasn't aware I was being motivated by fear.
But in actuality I felt like there was a ticking clock (time bomb) to create these items as extra income streams as soon as possible as I watched the impact on footfall on my physical business because of COVID-19
I had already acknowledged the gift we have in these current times and now more than ever in the Digital Universe and initially saw this as an income stream to complement my physical income but I hadn't anticipated a Global Pandemic and now I felt a pressure to create these other income streams within a time frame to counter act it's effects.
In the beginning I was relaxed about learning the skills and doing what it took for however long it took and at the same time I saw myself learning and putting into practice all those teachings very quickly but gradually with every roadblock, every passing day, week, month I felt time slipping away along with my financial income and the longer it took and the less I earned the fear grew stronger but I felt assured once completed everything would be ok
And then I got sucker punched for being a sucker and believing
Like the Quote from the film Field of Dreams "Build It and They Will Come"
I love that film because to me it relates to what can happen when you follow Inspired Action and you have unwavering Faith when on the outside to everyone it looks like nothing is happening.
Faith is the antidote to Fear but I see now realistically ...
In the beginning the best of the best go through this and crickets are normal. Even for them.
But you gotta do what they did ...
You just have to quit quitting !! Do the thing you love even if you think no-one is listening and the truth is!
If no-one is listening in the beginning good !!
This is where you hone your craft. Get better with each piece of content created. Become more confident with each piece of you you offer to the world
And talking of offering yourself ...
You should be always offering your most Authentic version of yourself even if no one is listening/watching and eventually
If you move forward in Faith regardless of the outcome without the Fear of desperation and or need for a certain result in a certain timeframe or way, the results will find you as well as Your Perfectly Aligned Audience.
I was being motivated by "The Fear of Poverty" even though I didn't realise it.
Logially I knew I needed to create extra income streams and on the surface I was being proactive but I was being so proactive I wasn't allowing myself to tune in and see the Devil that was driving me.
Fear of Poverty is one of the Six Basic Fears and is probably the most common among People throughout the world and what you focus most energy on, good or bad you Manifest so in the end I brought to my door my worst fear because I was placing all my focused attention on the things I desired least and I knew this fact yet still here I was because I was so far down the emotional scale ....
While my logical mind was telling me the destruction I was causing to myself I was so overwhelmed by Fear I couldn't seem to pull myself away from the very thing that was causing me so pain.
But I kept on listening to Ho'Oponopono books and audio's on repeat
Sometimes while carrying out certain tasks people weren't aware I had an earbud in for hours on end. Even in my Sleep
And then one day while carrying out a simple task something caught my eye and made me pull up.
I don't feel this was any accident
This was the Universe offering me a solution
It's while carrying out the simplest day to day tasks and not focusing on Fear we allow a chink for Infinite Intelligence to come through
Then feeling a bit clearer and hopeful (a higher level on the Emotional Scaled) my Higher Vibration was making it possible to allow synchronicity after synchronicity to create the resolution I required.
A short time later synchronicities were pulling me back to a book I promised myself I would never stop reading but sadly did.
That's where I realised how I was being motivated by Fear subconsciously to such a Devastating result (almost) and I was embarrassed that I had allowed myself to stop reading this book and get myself to this point again
But then as I listened to the words of the audiobook version and realised the author of this amazing book that was hidden for over 70 years and not allowed to be published had gone through the exact same thing I had done and now I was Grateful.
Grateful for it all !!
Because there is nothing to be embarrassed about.
If the author of one of the Greatest books ever written, that so many claim their success by then succumbs to Fear "After" they published "Think And Grow Rich"
It just shows that anyone can be tricked into acting out of one of these 6 Basic Fears and we all need to be Vigilant of them
I needed to go down this path to remind me to be Vigilant and now I felt it was part of my Purpose to warn people of the dangers of acting out of Fear and that is why I Am so Grateful that there are more people on this Path to ensure more and more People can "Outwitting The Devil"
Do I still experience Fear? Everyday, but now I use the sensations in my body as My Guide to return to Faith in the Yet Unseen and not be motivated by it and take some proactive action to avoid it.
Teaching the Destructive Power of Fear is so important for Me now that I created bonuses in a new Product I Am working on to help people maximise their Success Power and this book I mentioned is part of one of the Bonuses because it is so Important to Me now.
So Important that I Truly Believe it is My Favourite Book of All time but I had to Go through the pain of stopping reading it to understand it's True Power
I said I would Teach you the 6 Basic Fears but why not find out for YourSelf by Reading the book that was Hidden for Decades because maybe like me not completing my Ho'Oponopono Course when I first obtained it.
Now more than ever people needed to read "Outwitting the Devil" by Napoleon Hill
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PSS: The product I just referred to. Is it taking longer that I expected to get out there like my previous work? Yes ! Am I scared? No because I believe it will be finished in perfect time and whenever I feel pressurised to get it finished. Instead of speeding up. I slow down or even stop. Acknowledging this is Fear trying to play itself out in my reactions.
Start listening to Your reactions to situations and don't give Fear the Power.
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Until next time 🕰️ Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, Life because Miracles can Happen Right Now from Changing one Thought and letting the Synchronicities Happen !!
Ali xoxo

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