If You Are Not Dead You Are Winning

I was in privileged position to Listen to Rachel Hollis be interviewed by Vishen Lakhiani a few days ago and Rachel’s words are still rattling around in my brain ~ people are focusing on 2021 because 2020 was “so terrible” news flash shit happened before 2020 and it will happen in 2021 and beyond, sorry guys ~ we just have to deal with it ~ please be aware I Am paraphrasing because I can’t remember it word for word but I will listen again when it goes Live as a podcast 

The interview also discussed putting our real selfs out there regardless of the results and when I heard her say this I thought thank you for your honesty and maybe it’s time I should voice my opinion 

I am truly sorry for anyone who has lost a loved one or a job or a business during this time but people died and businesses failed and people lost jobs before the virus and maybe we all got a little numb to these everyday occurrences and we needed to be reminded of this fact and become more compassionate but put a label “Global Pandemic” over it and it seems like none of these events ever happened outside this situation and it has been wrapped in a blanket of fear and overwhelm and I am seriously concerned for people’s health and Mindset well-being especially when focused on the end of the Covid rainbow when we get to the other side and shit still happens but people’s mindset are even less able to cope ~ that’s the real tragedy here 

I thankfully had been passionate about personal development decades before the current situation evolved and carry out a morning routine practice that has supported me but I see people who have put skin in the game, or have accepted their cheese has moved and pivoted their personal situations and who also have experienced massive personal loss and disruption are feeling guilty to express they are ok or have succeeded even prospered during this time

Something you don’t know about me ~ I try to stick to a To Do list but often get wildly off course and a long time ago that would have riddled me with guilt and anxiety and negative self talk but these days I am a dichotomy of wanting to be more organised and stick to a list and more recently I am experimenting with surrendering to flow and acting on and tuning in to Intuition and when my copy of Rachel’s book arrived it brought back the interview and I felt an inspiration to write this post however it was quite late in the day and I decided I would post it the next day after transferring it from Evernote where I write everything first in to my blog platform

The original copy ended a few sentences back and was titled something else then but then :I didn’t see this coming happened …..

quick note: acting in flow creates a lot less stress and guilt when I diverge away from the ‘To Do’ list

So one of my facets is I have a weird and wonderful shop when I paint and sell hand carved wooden ducks and I also create bespoke orders and before I had time to transfer this copy a client came into enquire about personalised gift idea

When I took the client details I enquired if they had a daughter by a particular name recognising their’s and they asked what made me ask that and I explained who I was and they used to work with and be friends with my Mother and during my teens I had become close friends with their daughter until families came along etc and we lost touch

The lady then got emotional and apologised and said “I’m sorry, I still get upset when I think about them and it’s been 5 years now. Silly I know” Picking up on my confusion I guessed, they continued “You don’t know XXXX died 5 years ago of cancer”

Whoah ~ I definitely did not see that coming and now we are both moved emotionally

After the lady left the shop and I went to sit at my work station I guess instigated about current events and I thought about this post and how this beautiful kind soul lost their physical life 5 years earlier I literally said out loud “Well, if you are alive your are still Fxxking Winning”

Meaning what ever the situation if you have the luxury of breath in your lungs you are still winning because you can literally change your life by the quality of your next thought, and the next and next and the next

My book has recently arrived so I don’t know the exact contents but the subtitle tells me it’s just the antidote some people need right now so I have dropped the link below to preview it for yourself

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post 

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😡 Beware the power of Negative Media 😡

I saw this head line screenshot and posted into a Facebook group and despite not watching the news or reading newspapers because I know there intention of ‘scare and awe’ it sent me searching the internet for the full article

Reason being, today I am supposed to be flying to Crete by EasyJet but the flights have been cancelled and we have claimed a voucher to travel in 2021 but if they are… I am writing in air quotes now “hanging by a thread” I didn’t want to lose the hundreds of pounds sitting in their account waiting to be transferred to another flight

I read the article but a couple things confused me so I read it again and some parts a third time to digest it as best I could and I started analyse the data and the way I read it EasyJet are doing all they can to manage the fall out of Covid-19 and appreciate their cheese has been moved so doing what they can to minimise the impact to stay afloat and yes they are very vulnerable as most businesses are and if they don’t have a great summer next year there future maybe questionable but I’m sure that’s the same for most businesses and if they are aware if they don’t have a successful summer things are drastic that means they aren’t possibly going bust right this second

I to have had to pivot due to low footfall and I know businesses that are also evaluating their futures and some people’s mindsets have changed completely due to these unprecedented times and have chosen to have a better quality of life because of this situation and give up their businesses but headlines like this could send people as I initially did, think of racing for a refund or not book Travel for 2021and if that happened that would probably send EasyJet through the loop and for what …. somebody’s “Good Attention Grabbing Headline”

And that’s why I wrote beware the power of the media

If businesses are effected by the power of the press to create a “Headline” that means many people’s Jobs are effected and put at risk, then their families and people’s well-being as they navigate the minefield of un-employment and how they are going to support their family ~ buts that’s ok isn’t it ~ they got their scoop, their story, their salary from their Jurassic style journalism 🤬

Two books I recommend at this strange time in history are “Who moved my cheese” by Dr Spencer Johnson and “The Obstacle is the Way” by Ryan Holiday that will help get your brain focused on solutions rather than fear and thank Goodness I spent many a year reading Personal Development books prior to this time because the pre-personal development Ali would definitely not have positively pivoted and most likely have been sat huddled in the corner of the sofa wanting the world to go away ~ how do I know ???

Because that is how I dealt with the world before working on my Mindset and don’t believe me… this is not a sales tactic by the way but that full previously untold story is coming out in a book whose launch date is imminent and that would have definitely not have happened to that Ali – a book launch 😱

I am an Amazon Affiliate and I have dropped Amazon links for the book mentioned above for quick, easy access. Please note I do not make any money from the customer ~ Affiliates receive any commission earned from the product supplier

If you would like any advice on how to start a Personal Development journey or good books to read do not hesitate to drop me a DM because now … my purpose is to serve and help people find their more purposeful positive life and remember “Your dream is not over until you’re dead”

PS: first tip !!! Stop watching the news and reading newspapers 😉

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post 
I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out the Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ….

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No More Mrs Nice Guy

Learning the sad news of this beautiful soul feeling so overwhelmed she felt she had no choice but to take the drastic decision she made I ask you ???

Are you going to live an Ordinary or Extraordinary life from this day forward ?

I am no different than anybody else

I have felt so overwhelmed that I nearly made the same decision due to bullies but thankfully after giving the Universe an Ultimatum what I now know as The Law of Attraction kicked in and a whole series of events ensued

I am now living my best life and achieving a lot of my goals and setting more all the time and know they will all manifest eventually

And the only way they won’t is if I feel they won’t serve any expanded version of me any more

You may think it’s ok for her, she’s just lucky etc but I have not always been like this

I was the most negative person in the world

I would embark on a goal and at the FIRST sniff of a set back give up and feel poor me

But gradually with the assistance of Personal Development and using mindset tools I still get set backs but I just use them as set ups and now I just reassess and restart

I hear in business arenas all the time These two words “consistency” and “compound”

Meaning you have to do things consistently and eventually it will compound and you will see results but the same applies to Personal Development, Mindset and activating the Law of Attraction in your favour however I see people with lifetimes of negative programming try one Personal Development technique and because they didn’t see INSTANT results say “this stuff doesn’t work” and go back to focusing on “the lack of” and negative thinking

(Focus on lack ~ attract more lack)

(Focus on what you want ~ attract more of what you want)

I wrote above “in your favour” ~ you may think I am a total crack pot (I don’t care) you may think The Law of Attraction doesn’t work (it’s scientifically proven aka Quantum Physics)

It’s working Baby if you feel it or not ….. when? ….. now, now, now !!!

What ever you just focused on and thought about sent out an energetic signal to the Universe and you are now attracting that thought back to you ~ good or bad ~ that’s why I said “In Your Favour”

Was that thought attracting magnificence or lack to you? Pain or Joy? Your dream life or your Hell life?

The Law of Attraction works 💯 of the time, ALL the time but it’s like everything else – It takes consistent effort and over TIME those efforts compound and you see the fruits of your thoughts

I did not say labour on purpose because to me labour conjures up the thought of hard work and for me hard work has a negative vibration around it and negative thoughts and vibrations Block and Repel your magnetising power

Yes you are literally a human magnet – so please please please watch your thoughts and if you catch yourself thinking something negative “Thank it and Flip it”

Thank it for reminding you what you don’t want so you can remember and focus on what you do want and then …. imagine yourself already living/doing that thing … if possible add more things to it that you can see yourself doing … squeeze the joy out of it like it is an orange and even for as little as 30 seconds trust me you have set your self of the path of positive intention/attraction then …..

You have “Asked” now you just need to “Believe” in the “Yet” unseen and “Surrender “ and “Trust” you will “Receive”

Maybe not tomorrow !! maybe not next week !!! but if you keep those thoughts focused on positive not negative you will Attract that Extraordinary life !!!

Surrender, surrender, surrender and if you feel yourself focusing on the lack of ~ surrender some more and trust that it is coming

And as a Tribute to that beautiful girl who felt so much pain don’t waste another second “Get Shit Done”

As a foot note: I am seeing that Trolls may have contributed to her pain. As a victim of bullies I wish I could wave a magic wand and make them stop 🛑 but I know that won’t happen

The most liberating day for me was when I stopped caring what people thought and came out of the shadows to be my most authentic self and when I feel myself caring I do something to work on my mindset and switch back

Yes I am human and I have wonky (character building) days but that’s where that consistency comes in

This is a Lifetime’s work ~ not a one day thing if you wanna live life on your terms not somebody else’s

If you do not want to waste another day and want to start living life on your terms and need some support feel free to email me at alisonkparsons@lawofattactionlover.com or click on the link below to find out a new way of living a life of Freedom and Joy


Go For Gold

Don’t be like Me !! 

I must admit Today I am Living in regret !!! 😟

But it’s ok because it kicked me up the Butt and not going to make the same mistake twice!

My Dream is to create multiple streams of income and a residual income to allow me to do what I love and love what I do, not be compromised and be able to live a Life of Freedom and Joy and I am on a mission to encourage and help as many others to do the same so why when I saw something I wanted to do did I talk myself out of it? 😢

That old conditioned part of me kicked in and rationalised my desire and all the practical reasons why I shouldn’t do it and unfortunately I listened without even acknowledging it. 

I didn’t walk my talk and have Faith in the Universe and the Law of Attraction and make it happen and now I am sad and extra motivated at the same time !!! 😳

What am I regretting ???

I am huge fan of the Life Force that is Marie Forleo and recommend her for motivation to any one who says I would love to do what you do but …. I can’t afford to give up my job, but I have people relying on me, I don’t know how to start my own business etc and I say it doesn’t have to be an all or nothing Thang !! Check out Marie …. She had multiple part time jobs while she worked on building her legacy and I would loveeeee to Meet Marie 😍

So the Universe gave me an opportunity to fulfil this as Marie was in London yesterday on her book tour for her book “Everything is Figureoutable” ironic when you think I didn’t figure it out 

When I heard of the Tour I checked out the link for Tickets and they were sold out (sad face) then I saw an announcement that surprised by the desire for tickets another larger venue was available and more tickets were on sale “Yeah” (not sad face). This time tickets were available but that’s when the rationalising, boring don’t live for today voice kicked in.

You’ll have to shut the shop for 2 days, travel costs, hotel stay for a very short time event and I let the boring voice win and I thought I was alright with it until I saw a post on Tuesday of Marie on her travels and how great it was and there was a small seed of disappointment 

But fast forward to yesterday and the massive kick in the Teeth and I saw all the B-Schoolers meeting up before the event and having a great time including someone I know and Love was there with them and I could have had the opportunity to meet them too and seeing their posts and the other posts I was like … WTF Girl (in Marie’s  voice)!! What have you done ?!?! You will never get that opportunity again and serious regret set in 😞 

Thankfully I did act on an Opportunity the Universe gave me when I rein-stilled by goal for residual income to Travel more and the Miracle the Universe gave me means I can actually do both and after an incredible Conversation just now I am using Yesterday’s regrets to fire me up 🔥🚀

Initially coming into this I thought I would start it small and build from there but now I am “Hell no, I am going for Gold” and looking for like minded people who want to Go for Gold and turn their Lives around and Live a Life of Freedom and Joy 

The Opportunity I found means you can run your business from anywhere in the world but also start while you still have your day job or paint ducks 😉 because there are no products, no targets or volume to reach each month so nothing gets flushed sooooooo no pressure 🙂 🙂 🙂 … if you know Network Marketing you’ll know what I mean and what a joy this means 🙂 

It is Service based with multiple income streams and a residual income opportunity and the Team Culture and Training is awesome. My Upline is incredible and supporting me in a way I have never known and I intend to emulate her as a Leader

When I first heard about it it kept me awake at night I was so excited about the gift I had been given only a few days after setting my intention for more Travel and a Residual Income ~ The Law of Attraction is just amazing !!

Do you like I used to, feel sick on a Sunday, hate Mondays. Eventually start dreading Monday when I left the office on a Friday and calculate how long I had until I retired 

If you are ready to start living the Life you actually deserve and start Going for Gold then keep calm and drop me an email but don’t like I did let that rational voice talk you out of something Truly amazing and live in regret because all the best spots are at the Top 🥇
And ….. !!!!

Remember my belief that Age is irrelevant so none of that “I’m to old baloney” 

Entrepreneurs don’t retire. They don’t need to, they love what they do and do what they love. 

“My wish for you is that you truly live a Life of Freedom and Joy”


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