⚠️ Covid wasn’t the deadliest pandemic. This one is—and most people don’t even know they have it.

It’s not a virus. It’s not in the air. It’s in our conversations.

​The conversations we have every single day. With others. And most dangerously—with ourselves.

Back in 2010, my life was in freefall. I was reading every personal development book I could get my hands on, desperate for answers.

But nothing changed.

Why? Because I was devouring information—but never taking action.

And worse? I spent most of my time talking about how unfair life was:

💬 Why money never seemed to flow

💬 Why I felt stuck, frustrated, and drained

💬 Why nothing ever worked for me

Sound familiar?

Here’s the truth: if you’re trying to build a business online, conversations matter more than strategy. In the beginning I was following strategy after strategy of every successful person I admired but I was "NOT" creating the success they swore that would come if you followed their strategy and then one day it hit me
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It worked for them because of their "Belief" in the strategy, not the strategy itself

And the same goes the other ways if you have a lack of belief ...

⚠️ Every time you say, “I can’t sell”—your brain believes it.

⚠️ Every time you tell a friend, “This probably won’t work”—you plant seeds of doubt.

⚠️ Every time you repeat stories about struggle—you attract more of it.

When I first read The Secret, I had an epiphany💡: It wasn’t just my thoughts keeping me stuck—it was the words I spoke, the conversations I entertained, and the energy I kept reinforcing.

​I was literally creating more of what I "Didn't" want because of my attention on it
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The other day, I overheard a group of people locked in negative conversations—blaming, complaining, reinforcing their limitations.

That's when it hit me like a ton of bricks.

This is the world’s worst pandemic.

I know now how cataclysmic our words and conversations are for attracting the things we don't want but 98% of the population are not even aware they are attracting their own downfall

And the symptoms? They’re devastating:

⚠️ Jobs we dislike

⚠️ Financial struggles

⚠️ Dreams abandoned before they start

If you’re a woman over 40 trying to create an online business you love, this is the silent killer.

​Because it doesn’t just stop you from taking action. It convinces you that you’re powerless—and keeps you stuck in cycles of “almost” and “not yet.”
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The good news? Just like with any virus, you can fight back. You can rewire your words.

You can learn how to speak life into your business, your relationships, and your future. And when you do? You’ll notice shifts in your results faster than any marketing hack or strategy tweak.

I was so moved by my realisation I created a FREE ebook designed specifically for women like you—women ready to stop reinforcing struggle and start speaking their way into success.

📖 Inside, you’ll discover 18 affirmations and conversation shifts that will help you:

✨ Reframe your self-talk so it supports your business growth

✨ Stop reinforcing lack and start attracting opportunities

✨ Build unshakable confidence as you grow your online brand

​👉 Grab your free copy here to: Change the Conversation, Change Your Life
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Your conversations are shaping your business every single day. If you’re ready to build a brand you love, it’s time to stop repeating the language of struggle and start speaking the language of success.

Because the words you choose today? They’re writing your tomorrow.

If you haven't done so already or not even aware of it I have created a Free Course to Help Women start to Build a Brand and Business Online that they love and Wake Up Happy for and this is the perfect accompaniment for the Free eBook

👉 Grab the Free course here: Build a Brand and a Business You Love Over 40 for FREE !!

One last thing ...

​Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible to Build a Business and Life You Love And Wake UP Happy !! and if you haven’t grabbed it yet !?! get my Fabulous Morning Routine that changed my life and made me Wake UP Happy at mywakeuphappy.com