In 2010 I was very much in the everything is happening to me camp

Or more to the point "Why is All this Happening to Me" camp

And I know now. It was all happening to me for 2 reasons

a) - I was in the most common human default level on the four levels of consciousness. Level 1. The Victim State or more commonly known as the "Poor Me" state of consciousness

b) - Because that was where I was putting all my focused attention so that was what I was attracting back to me

I couldn't attract back Happening For Me situations because I was not in that Mindset

Even though I had already spent several years reading Self-Help and Personal Development books and I was focusing on "Why is this stuff working for others and not me?"

When I first heard Tony Robbins say that statement above live on a Zoom only a few short years ago be also backed it up with scenarios that had come to pass for him by believing in that statement

He wasn't saying things had been easy. They absolutely were not !!

He could have just said that statement and left it there with no context and it probably would have sounded good at the time and then I would have forgotten about it but he backed it up will real life examples

Stories of when he faced adversity he trusted this was happening for him and that equally there was a solution to resolve it

Thankfully for me Tony Robbins had the wherewithal to put himself in front excellent Mentors from a very Young age and now I was benefitting from that wisdom in a few short days instead of decades

From then on my Mindset was changed to not "why is this happening to me" but "Why is this Happening to me?

I know they look like the exact same sentence but if you could hear me articulate them the first one is said in a self pitying tone and the second is a more inquisitive "Hmmm" tone of reference

I needed to set this frame of reference before I truly got into the purpose of this edition of Amplified Empires to have you look at. Maybe for the first time the things that have happened to you in your life.

Your Stories

It also maybe the first time you will be looking at them in a different frame of reference.

I know someone close to me (but not close to me, because I keep my distance from them as much as possible) who has spent their whole life telling their poor me, victim stories to anyone and everyone that will listen. Over and over and over again.

They whollow in them and more and more stories keep popping up. New negative experiences to add to the library. Funny that, isn't it. I wonder why that happens? or that they attract those experiences but repel people?

I have already admitted I was there too until I learned about the Law of Attraction and Quantum Physics I saw the consequences of my focused attention and wanted to attract new and better, different results.

But for this edition

Let's take some time out and sit with the things that "Have Happened" to us and as I mentioned earlier view them differently

Perhaps Journal it out in a timeline leaving some space underneath each impactful event and I know this maybe quite painful but remind yourself I am doing this for a positive reason

I am recalling it for the lesson

For what it was trying to show me, give me.

Obviously if it is to stressful. Move onto another episode and trust that you will see things clearer in time.

For the longest time my "Poor Me" story was around being bullied

My earliest memories were of being bullied and wondering "Why Me"

Bullying continued into my adult life. In relationships and in the workplace but then when I changed my perspective

Firstly I saw I attracted those situations to me by my "Poor Me" attitude and my attention over and over again on them

Constantly replaying them like my friend above but when I saw the power of my own thoughts and took responsibility for them

Level 2 on the 4 levels of Consciousness "By Me"

I started using Law of Attraction practices that Miraculously meant I Manifested myself away from the work place bullying

This inspired me so much I then started my Blog, The Law of Attraction Lover to help motivate and teach practices to others to use The Law of Attraction in their lives to be able to Wake UP Happy as I was now doing

Then looking back and hearing Tony's words I not only saw I attracted scenarios in my life via my thoughts I started to look at events and people that maybe I should have hated, with Gratitude

Feeling it and they were there and or came into my awareness purely to learn from. Teach me something. Take me to another level in my existence. Share something and help others

Not so long ago I followed Inspired Action to write a book about how to use The Law of Attraction and Ho'Oponopono to beat bullying called "The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho'Oponopono to Beat the Bullies"

Yesterday I received some income into my account from Amazon for the purchases of that book and I can't help wondering who purchased it and that I hope it helps them and they get value from it and eradicates bullying from their life or maybe the life of someone they love

And now I cannot view being bullied or the people who bullied me with anger. Now I love them and that part of my life because I now see it and they had purpose and it happened for me.

Now I truly believe everything happened "To Me" for a purpose

Every curveball. Every event. Even painful ones. Every job I hated etc gave me transferable skills that I now see I needed to be there to gain to be able to use now in what I am doing today and I am grateful for it all even if it didn't make sense at the time

Or it took me out of my comfort zone/zones

Thank You. Thank You. Thank You !!

Now it's your turn .....

Going back to what I mentioned above

Look back over your life and ask yourself what was the possible purpose in that event?

What transferable skill did I gain? What lessons did I learn? What actions did I take to get me out of that situation?

And

How could I use that today? How could I share that with someone else to help them?

In this Online Education Space that is only going from strength to strength and turning into a Trillion Dollar Industry

What can I bring to it's table

Trust me there is a Secret Hidden in Your Story that can serve someone else

It all happened for a reason

There are no accidents "Which Coincidentally is the title of one my blog posts. Because I truly believe there aren't

And you maybe thinking

Yeah, but you just said that Online Education is moving into the Trillion Dollar echelons

Who wants to listen to me when there are already so many people out there already doing it

"People who are where you once were"

We all were once somewhere until we invested our time into something we love and got better at it and we will only keep getting better at it with practice (and the help of AI) so there is always going to be someone just starting out and or less knowledgeable than you and eager like I did with Tony Robbins to fast track my journey in a few days taking what he took and paid decades to learn and only gained the good stuff and skipped the bad stuff

Another quote that struck me that weekend by Tony Robbins was


"Success Leaves Clues"
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People want to learn and should learn from the people already successful in the arena they want to be in

Not the multiple divorced relative still thinking they are worthy to give marital advice

Or the broke friend still working the same job for decades living paycheck to paycheck giving business advice or more to the point why "You Shouldn't Follow Your Dreams and Start the Business"

That's their fears. Not Yours and now more than ever it is easier than ever to just doing more of what you love and learning how to monetise it

I say start doing it now and learn as you go because if you start thinking of it as a business you may never start for fear you are not qualified enough and that's where the people who have already done the thing you want to do are leaving the clues and then you can transfer those to the ones behind you

Are you start picking up what I Am Putting down

I dreamed of being self-employed from a very early age when no one around me was. I didn't know where it came from or how I was going to do it and Entrepreneur was not even a word I knew exsisted so I kept doing the job and doing the jobs. Gaining the Transferable skills

And eventually in my 50's I became an Entrepreneur

And even then I had no idea that what I was learning for myself and then loving and then becoming Passionate about I was going to help others to learn and monetise

I was just having fun with it because I loved it

Now I help people and share those skills and they tell me it blows them away with what I know and I do and they don't know how I do it but just a few short years ago I didn't know it either

But it all started to add up

And I started to see the potential and I saw that if I could learn it in my 50's others could to and then people came to me saying I was lucky and give them ideas of how they could do it to and then they would dispel it as something not for them and that made me sad

There is a saying "Pain Pushes until Passion Pulls"

The Pain of talented beautiful women leaving so much on the table eventually led me to divert my focus on to helping women like that

There could be something painful in your stories that pushes you too to create something that help others

In fact I am pretty darn sure of it and that's why I am suggesting you take time to analyse your experiences and see how they served you and you can serve others with them

And eventually those stories are what are going to sell your services to Soul Aligned Clients

So can you see

The Secret is Truly In Your Stories

Both by finding how you can help others and then telling them to the people who need to hear them to appreciate why and how you are the person qualified to serve them regardless how many other people are in the space because your story is unique to you and how you can serve them is uniquely yours because no one else has walked your path in your way and taken from it what it came to give you to share in any other way

You are and your stories and how you choose to share them is completely Unique to You and You are Your Brand ...

Not colours and fonts

Delve into Your Stories and decide how You are going to give Your Own Unique Gift to the World and drop me a message if you need any help here

And want to know ways to share them in this modern world:

Grab my Free eBook at "Flourish Over Forty"

See you on the next edition of Amplified Empires

And a have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !!!

Ali xoxo


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